Number One People-Skill
The first and most fundamental people-skill.

Why Positive Reinforcement Doesn't Seem to Work
When you praise and reward people, sometimes they seem to get worse. Find out why.

Helping a Troubled Friend
When listening to a friend's troubles, find out what will truly help.

Shyness to Charisma
Are you shy? You don't have to be. Cure shyness and gain charisma.

Confidence With Bosses and Women
How you can have much more confidence with people in authority and the opposite sex.

Times Have Changed
A look at how Western society creates loneliness and alienation, and what you can do about it.

Calming Influence
How to cultivate empathy for others and add sanity to the world.

Consequences of Not Listening Well
What are the consequences to your mate when you don't listen well? Warning: This is not pretty.

Bypass the Impasse
How to handle an impasse between you and your mate.

Why Deepen Connection?
Your feelings of being loved have a measurable influence on your health.

How to be Sincerely Interested
The key to good listening is to be sincerely interested. But can you deliberately become interested and do it sincerely?

What to Say When You Want to be Honest
If you want to be more honest, you need to know what honesty really is.

Weedwhacker
How to deal with people who upset you.

Commitment
Adam Khan's advice to a friend who was seriously contemplating divorce.

Honest Persuasion
How to honestly persuade people.

Is Anger Useful?
And if it is, under what circumstances?

The Best Way To Disagree
Create better bonds with people by knowing the difference between different kinds of talk.

Change People Without Criticizing
Learn how you can accomplish this seemingly impossible goal.

Reveal Intentions
An important principle in good communication is to let your listener know what your intentions are.

Magic Mirror
Are you shy? Here's how to overcome it.

Power in Your Life
Everybody knows you "should" be honest. But not everybody knows that honesty has some powerful practical advantages that completely outweigh, at least in most situations, any benefit you could get by compromising your integrity.

Wrathful Condemnation
Reduce how much you judge and condemn others.

How to Handle People Who Bring You Down
When someone puts you in a bad mood fairly consistently, you need to change the way you interact with them. Learn how in this article.

Sex Differences
Are there real differences in the sexes? If so, what causes those differences? Is it helpful to know about it one way or another? Find out here.

Patience
How to become more patient.

The Easy Way To Learn a Language
Increase your communication with people of other countries, and improve your own brain at the same time.

Give the People What They Want
How to increase the cooperation and goodwill of people you work with.

Disarming Hostility
What you can do when someone is rude to you.

No Apology
Be exactly who you are without apology and you will attract people to you who are good for you.

Feeling Intimidated in Conversations?
Read a conversation between Adam Khan and a woman who has trouble carrying on a conversation with people she looks up to.

Satisfy the Hunger
Three core principles in dealing with people.

Bad Mood Carriers
Are you in a relationship with someone who is in a bad mood often? Would you like to do something to change that?

Closer to Someone
How to get closer to someone in a conversation by knowing how to listen.

Have Less Upset With Others
Learn what causes problems with people.

Cultivating Closeness
Learn how you can become closer to the people you love, and why it is good for your health and happiness if you do.

How to Deal With Common Everyday Sociopaths
Is there someone in your life who seems to cause more distress than all the other people in your life put together? Not all sociopaths are murderers.

The Other Number One People-Skill
Here is something so basic but that makes a big difference in dealing with people.